💕 You desire to attract a healthy relationship & want to learn how to powerfully hold boundaries
💕 You find yourself seeking approval in your life whether it be dating, friendships, work & you want to feel confident in yourself - in every situation
💕 You desire an internal foundation that and mindset practices that support you in feeling empowered daily
💕 You crave deep connection but have your walls up because you don’t want to get hurt
💕 You attract men who “check some boxes” but aren’t emotionally available - you want the full package
💕 Dating & relationships is the one area of your life that isn’t as “strong” as your career, friendships, health, and you desire support
Picture how incredible it’s going to feel when you wake up in the morning next to your partner. You two will snuggle and then cook an amazing breakfast together. Every day is an adventure with him.
You feel safe, you feel confident, you feel like this was the part of your life you’ve been waiting for.
No more struggling, no more laying in bed at night wondering you’re ever going to meet him - he’s here and you’re SO glad you did the work to attract him.
❌ You thought that you must work on yourself first and completely transform BEFORE you could even think about dating
❌ You’ve attracted men who weren’t willing to give you a long term commitment and thought it was because you weren’t enough — you just needed to be clear on what you wanted & put up boundaries with these men
❌ You’ve believed that it needs to be hard, take a long time, or that you will have to settle to attract a committed relationship — when really you just needed to let go of those beliefs and lies3
I remember what it felt like after watching most of my friends get engaged and married and wondering why I was so “behind”.
I was single for 3 years in my mid-late 20’s and had convinced myself that I was living in the wrong city, all the good men were taken, and that I would have to DRASTICALLY settle to have a man want to commit to me.
I constantly worried about other women being “competition” and felt like dating was a lot of work and meant to be anxious and heart-wrenching.
I remember getting soo excited after a first date thinking it went really well only to be disappointed when I never heard from him again.
I convinced myself that I had too many flaws and insecurities for a man to want to marry me - I had to completely transform to be dateable.
I decided to hire a coach to support me through this. I had no idea what my blind spots in dating and my mindset were and I needed to go deep within myself to clear what had been blocking me.
I dove into personal development and changed my thought process from “it’s never going to happen for me” to “I’m going to attract the most amazing 10/10 relationship, I KNOW my partner is there.
Less than a year of going ALL IN, I met my partner Ryan who pursued me and treated me like a Queen.
Today we live together in an incredible 4 bedroom home in Orange County, have an adorable dog named Bugga, and are constantly planning our next adventures together.
I can't wait to teach you how to do the same. Yes, you can have this too.
Let me show you how.
The 3 month group coaching experience so you can feel free in your self, experience self-love like never before, step into next level confidence in all areas of you life, and be in a community of powerful women ready to cheer you on, hold space for you, and hold you accountable!
Did you know that having a strong dating mindset is essential to attracting your dream partner? The most important relationship you will EVER have is the one you create with yourself.
How you feel about yourself builds the foundation for the the relationship you would like to attract.
The more you love yourself, heal yourself, and clear what’s holding you back the FASTER you will have the life of your dreams - your dream relationship included.
I infuse NLP & multiple modalities in my coaching and have created the most intimate, high-touch, and transformational container in the dating industry.
The tools, practices and methods inside I’ve helped over 250 women just like you through my courses, coaching, and programs to do the same.
Just picture what’s gonna be possible for you when you have all the tools to feel more confident than you've ever been in who you are, and what you have to bring to the table :
⭐ Getting super clear on the type of partner you are compatible with so you can spend your precious time ONLY with men who you can see a future with
⭐ Feeling confident in yourself when dating because you know what a Queen you are and love yourself at the deepest level.
⭐ You're finally able to let go of thinking about your ex, ruminating over the past, and staying stuck in fear is completely GONE
⭐ GIRLFRIEND, imagine how freeing it’s going to feel when you start to enjoy dating and have quality men pursuing you!
⭐ No more comparing yourself to other women and wondering if you’re going to be enough, It’s been replaced with a deep sense of self-assurance, confidence, and self-love - you now truly believe in your bones that YOU are the prize, YOU are choosing, not waiting to be chosen!
🌹 Bi-weekly powerful 90 minute group coaching sessions each month held on Zoom
🌹 12 training modules & integrative workbooks delivered directly to you inside of your private course hub
🌹 Monthly 90 minute live guest expert trainings
🌹 Unlimited voice and text support for 3 months in our group support chat M-F - to ask ANY questions & get coaching. Imagine, me in your pocket for 90 days!
🌹 An intimate community of like-minded women on a similar journey to support you and cheer you on
🌹 Built-in accountability program to keep you on track toward your goals
🌹 Lifetime access to all trainings, workbooks & group coaching session recordings
🌹 Incredible guest expert speakers and facilitators in the fields of Breathwork, Healing, Embodiment, Mindset, & more!
Over the 12 weeks, I will be guiding you through my proven three phase transformational process: UNLEARN. EMPOWER. EMBODY
WEEK 1: VISION & CLARITY: GET CLEAR ON YOUR WHY & WHAT YOU TRULY DESIRE
You will gain clarity on the type of relationship you want to have, what's most important to you in love, & the purpose behind all the action you are taking.
WEEK 2: SELF-CARE PRACTICES & SETTING UP YOU QUEEN ROUTINE
This week is all about setting you up to implement daily mindset practices that support you in stepping into your Queen status. You will learn how to create powerful rituals and fill your cup up every single day.
Some of the practices you learn this week will be life-long.
WEEK 3: LIMITING BELIEFS & TELLING A NEW STORY
You will get to the bottom of the conflicting and limiting beliefs that have been getting in the way of you attracting your dream relation. This will be a breakthrough week for you as you will learn my process for eliminating stories keeping you stuck
WEEK 4: FORGIVENESS & LETTING GO OF THE PAST
Your ticket to freedom will be redeemed this week. You will learn how to FINALLY let go of the shame, anger, sadness, and guilt you've been carrying and staying blocked from your dream partner finding you. You deserve to be free - this week is it!
WEEK 5: ATTACHMENT & RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS
You will learn your attachment style and how it shows up in your romantic relationships. You will have a ton of ah-hah moments from this module. You will have the chance to FINALLY interrupt patterns that have kept you attracting emotionally unavailable men.
WEEK 6: CONTINUING TO SHIFT YOUR STORY & CREATE SPACE FOR THE NEW
Now that we have cleared the beliefs and emotions that have kept you stuck, you will be learning new healing modalities and tools to continue to have breakthroughs & shifts in your day-to-day.
WEEK 7: COMPATIBILITY & LAYING THE FOUNDATION FOR A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP
This week is crucial for you to learn which qualities are most non-negotiable for you to build a life with somebody. No more only checking off a couple boxes, you get to have it all!
WEEK 8: THE MASCULINE & FEMININE ENERGY DYNAMIC
You will learn all about the balance of feminine and masculine energy and how it shows up in dating. You will learn how to be in a beautiful flow with dating and increase your confidence.
WEEK 9: HOW MEN & WOMEN SHOW INTEREST IN DATING
Men and women take on different roles in dating. You will gain valuable insight into how men are programmed and what motivates them in dating and pursuing. Learn how to have men pursue you and how to show your interest.
WEEK 10: CREATING A DATING PLAN + HOW TO HAVE MAGNETIC CONNECTIONS ON DATING APPS
What type of woman has the most success in dating? The confident and self-assured woman who is obsessed with her life! You will learn the tools to be confident in any situation and how to experience ever more joy in your day to day life.
Now that you are feeling the most confident you have ever been, we get to create a plan that feels good for you to have the most success and momentum in your dating life
WEEK 11: CLASSY BOUNDARIES IN DATING
Have you struggled to hold boundaries in the past? Bent the rules? Said yes when really you wanted to say no? Well that's not going to happen any longer!
This week you'll learn how to create strong boundaries to be pursued by quality men. Boundaries around planning dates, intimacy & sexual connection, & how to handle common situations that come up in early stages of dating. You'll weed out time wasters & get even CLOSER to your King after this module.
WEEK 12: ACKNOWLEDGEMENT & CELEBRATION FOR HOW FAR YOU'VE COME & WHAT'S NEXT
After 90 days of dedicated working on yourself, we get to look back at how far you have come. We will measure your growth and milestones and you will create empowering next steps in your journey, this week is HUGE & typically a favorite!
I have talked with hundreds of women just like you who are READY for their dream relationship....
The women who go all in and invest, get MASSIVE results & make fast progress toward attracting love. The women who don't end up in the same place - attracting men who don't value their time, staying hidden in fear, and making up excuses for why they will date later, when they "have time"
& that time never comes for them. There's always another excuse because they have fear and limiting ideas keeping them stuck from meeting their partner.
Let's NOT have that be your story.
Let me ask you, if nothing were to change in your love life, how would you feel a year from now?
Wouldn't it feel amazing for you to feel excited in 2021 & in your power? I thought so, I am ready to do this with you!
Q: How long is Fall in Love?
A: Fall in Love is 12 weeks. This upcoming round kicks off in September!
Q: Will I get coaching from Valerie directly?
A: Yes, you will have a chance to receive coaching from Valerie directly on each weekly group coaching call and when you will have unlimited voice + text support in-between calls in our group Voxer chat.
Q: I'm nervous, should I just wait until next round?
A: *Puts coaching hat on*
Have you ever done something you weren’t ready for and it turned out better than you could have ever expected? How much longer are you going to say, “next time”? Future rounds aren’t guaranteed. If you’ve been thinking of working with Valerie, NOW is the time.
Q: How much does it cost to join Fall in Love?
A: Fall in Love is a four-figure investment. Specific details & payment options will be discussed after your application has been accepted!
Q: What if my schedule fluctuates & I can’t make all the calls?
A: No worries! All calls are recorded and will be uploaded into your personal portal so you can watch them on the replay - however, I highly encourage you move mountains to make the calls because will have incredible guest speakers and receive hot seat coaching each call.
Q: What if I want to do some of the trainings & workbooks again in the future? Will they disappear after this round of Fall in Love?
A: No way! The trainings, workbooks, and call recordings are yours for life! Feel free to re-visit any time!
Q: I’m intimidated by a group dynamic, is this a fit for me?
A: I hear you girl! I am very particular about the energy that is in Fall in Love & I am committed to keeping it a safe space and creating a sisterhood. There is an interview process to join Fall in Love and any woman who joins will 100% committed to attracting love & being a supportive sister.
Q: What if i’m not currently dating at the moment? Will I benefit from Fall in Love?
A: Absolutely! 100 times yes! Fall in Love is the ultimate transformational program for you to do the inner work to remove what’s blocking you and create the most amazing relationship with you so that you can create a solid foundation for your dream partnership.
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*Note*: Due to the level of support you will be receiving from me, I am only allowing women who are 100% committed to join. You will be my main priority for 90 days & spots are very limited this round. If you are serious about up-leveling your mindset, self-love, and love life, apply now to claim your spot!